Hello Zabava.I can understand your worry and concern.It's really tough dealing with a child that you can see going downhill and there seems little that you can do about it. Unfortunately most of us on the forum are unqualified to give you really good advice on this matter. Dealing with Teens and mood disorders is difficult for even trained professionals. (My son had a mood disorder as a teen and I know it can be difficult to get them to accept therapy).
I can give you some generalities. First most medications don't always work the same on a young person as they do on someone older 2) If she has been on cipralex for at least 60 days and there has been no improvement it's time to have a discussion with her doctor about whether or not 10mg cipralex is the right drug or dosage.
Often a medication will work for one person and have no effect on the next person, so it's important to keep the doctor informed if you think it's not working.
3)Often as our anxieties increase so does our unwillingness to meet people we know, much less strangers in a new setting. Our anxieties can literally paralyze us, as well as giving us very physical symptoms like stomach problems and head aches.
Although you probably have the power to force your daughter to attend therapy, it's been my experience that when something is forced on us, we may attend, but we rebel and don't pay much attention.
Has her medical doctor ruled out other sources of her problems? That may sound silly, but our bodies have a variety of glands and if one of them isn't working properly that could explain some of her problems. Only a very complete physical and a complete blood work up can really tell if everything is working as should.
The MDAO has an excellent guide on Helping Someone With a Mood Disorder. You can access it at
https://mooddisorders.ca/guide/guide-to-helping-someone-with-a-mood-disorder At the bottom of that page you will see a link to F.A.M.E. (Family Association for Mental Health Everywhere.) You might want to check out their website too.
The guide may seem overly simple, but it does contain a lot of good advice.
As Daniel F has suggested earlier you may want to contact the MDAO about their programs and also about their peer support groups for people like yourself. You can also find out more about these groups at
https://mooddisorders.ca/programs?field_region_value_many_to_one=Toronto Good Luck and please keep posting. You may not instant answers here, but we will try our best to support you as you struggle with a loved ones mental illness. Take Care. paul m