Thank you, Paul. Everything you say helps a great deal. It opens my eyes about a number of factors.
He's had his motorcycle for sale for a few months. It's not selling. Someone offered to trade their 20 year old mustang (80,000 km's on it, which isn't high) for the motorcycle just purchased the year before last. It has a V8 engine, huge gas guzzler, and in my opinion with it being a 20 year old mustang the cost of repairs and insurance could be astronomical. He said he would give the mustang to our 17 year old daughter. Who gives a 17 year old a mustang?
Sorry, I didn't mean to turn this into a rant. I'm just so stressed by all this, and things such as trading the motorcycle for a mustang adds to it.
I would like to say at this time that my husband has a good heart and does love his children a great deal.
I'm planning to phone the local shelter on Monday, provided I'm having a good day. Our shelter takes women in for 2 weeks only. I used to volunteer for them. One of the things I want to ask them about is a referral to a lawyer (I don't qualify for legal aid). I'm hoping they might know of ones that are good, but not overly expensive. Any other things anyone can think of that I should ask them?