Hi all,
Speaking of dancing.... I read the book 'The Dance of Anger' by Dr. Harriet Lerner (first published in 1985). It was the starting point to helping me understand the chaos in my life. It wasn't until I re-read the book many years later, that I realized my part in the chaos continuing and it was like a light bulb came on. Unfortunately, I wasted sooo many years trying to change everyone so that (in my eyes) we could all just be happy. How arrogant of me. I don't know why I ever thought that I had the answers or that much control. I must say, that once I worked on letting go of the "I'll always be there for you and pick you up when you're down" mentality; positive things began to happen (slowly).
This quote is an oldie and it's one of my favourites.
“I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best.”
― Marilyn Monroe
Take good care everyone!