Hi Soozan,
Thank you for your insight. You mentioned that you are morbidly obese. I am too. I wasn't when I was younger. See I am trying to justify the fact that I wasn't always that way. Am I wording that right. My husband never critized me for being overweight. I would say I am fat. From what he would say if I remember correctly maybe pleasantly plump. My husband said it didn't matter. He loved me very much and didn't I know how much I meant to him.
It really bothers me that I am overweight. Society makes us feel that way. The thing I am worried about is how it effects my health. My mother was overweight and she lived to be 92 yrs. old. She did have heart problems though. As you say Soozan I am probably my own worst critic.
I am so glad Soozan that you and Rich found each other. My daughters would probably say you are getting mushy Mom.
Happy Valentine's Day!!!
Dragonfly