Hello Momfeelinglost. I don't have any good suggestions. You can try looking up patient relations for that hospital and how to make a complaint. I haven't had much luck complaining about treatment that I have received. I have had some small victories). I can only hope that my complaints will make a difference in the future. Plus sometimes it just feels good to write a carefully worded letter even if it doesn't resolve the problem.
Having a doctor judge people is unfair and doesn't help anyone. I wish your son and you the best of luck, Take Care. paul m